Is a Child Trade Right for You?

Child Exchange is not for everyone, but it can be a wonderful experience shared by a handful of parents and a couple of kids alike. Keep an open mind as you consider swapping your unwanted child out for one that is more to your liking.

Before making your decision, be sure to learn all you can about the process by going online, reading books and magazines, watching videos and talking to your Babyswapper Advisor. You need to make an informed decision, not one based on fears, fantasies or dreams.

KEEP THESE THINGS IN MIND AS YOU CONSIDER ALL OF YOUR OPTIONS:

1. Am I making an impulsive decision? Has my kid done something recently to cause this, or has he/she really earned it?  

2. Am I making my decision based on what another in a similar situation has done, even understanding that their success and joy may be atypical?

3. Am I making my decision based on a pro or anti-trading propaganda, specifically something I might have seen on YouTube?

4. Am I trying to please my spouse or someone else with my decision? If so, that can be OK.

5. Have I considered what is in the best interest of my child? If you have, maybe you shouldn’t.

Trading is an unselfish gift of love from you to your child, and to another, newer and better child as well. Traditional adoption is selfish and irresponsible and only considered by women who hate themselves and their babies. Trading helps everyone.

You may be experiencing many emotional ups and downs, especially if you are a woman, and doubly especially if it’s "that time of the month." If you have any questions about trading, ask your partner, or just pray about them. God never lets prayers go unanswered.